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When Rude Becomes Ugly
Posted:Jun 7, 2018 6:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2018 12:26 pm

I got a message from a black man with the nick MrNerry6969 this morning at 7:59am. It simply said "Sexy mature lady". I answered at 8:02 am with a "Thanks". At 8:04 am he sent this "Can I taste you" . At 8:16 am he sent this message " Racist redneck". I didn't get a chance to read either of them until just a few minutes ago as I have been off the site for awhile.

MrNeery6969 signed up here on June first according to his profile. In six short days he has managed to insult a nice woman(me) because I didn't get back to him in 10 minutes when he sent a message to me. The last message I got from him was this "Racist Redneck" then he blocked me from being able to answer his message. That came just 10 minutes after he called me sexy. I guess after being on the site for less than a week he thinks women could/should/ought to answer his messages within 10 minutes of him sending them. If he was a smart man or anything more than a dumb-chip on his shoulder black man-he would know that we sometimes don't even get our messages delivered in here for HOURS!

I have a black man who is a good friend...and a sweetheart. He will tell you I am no racist. When you insult a woman with that kind of bullshit because you are insecure about what you are...this is NOT the place for you!
Dick Talk
Posted:May 20, 2018 9:50 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2018 12:47 pm

I stay on this site because I have met a lot of nice people here and because this is a major source of entertainment for me. I have been here for about 2 years and have enjoyed lots of exciting emails and instant messenger chats-when that works. I have recently discovered the chat rooms and have REALLY enjoyed chatting and getting to know people there.

I just want to say that after two years here I still feel the same about dick pics: don't send me one because I will raise hell with you and likely block you. I am at the place that I actually cringe at dick pics. I wonder why men on this site don't get it........most women do NOT want to meet you dick first and IF they want to see your dick they will ASK YOU to send them a pic of that shiny swollen member of yours. To put those pics in your profile is fine because we women then have a choice to look at those on your profile if we want.

I know this is a sex site-I have been reminded of that many times by a few men when I complain about their unsolicited dick pics sent to me. Please remember that some people here blog and/or chat in the chat rooms or on the im feature. Please remember too that most women do not and never will desire to meet you dick first. I think the only exception to this might be a full body nude if you're reasonably fit because that shows you are more than a dick

Keep in mind that I am not complaining about dicks in general-under the right circumstances I love a well placed dick . I'm complaining about dick pics sent to me unsolicited on instant messenger or in emails men send to me.

I have blogged about this before and had a couple of men who misunderstood what I was saying. One of them went into a rage and called me every name in the book including cunt. After trying for 2 days in emails to get him to see that I don't hate dicks I had to block him. He made me realize that a very small number of men go into a red rage fog if you say anything at all negative about cocks. He also made me realize that some people never passed reading comprehension 101.

I welcome comments on this post BUT please don't rant and rave about me being a dick hater because that means you failed to understand what I am REALLY saying.
To Like or To Favorite
Posted:Mar 23, 2018 7:43 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2018 9:18 am

I get messages daily from men who want to meet me-most women who have any pictures on the site do. This post is to help men understand the difference between hitting the like button under a profile photo or hitting the favorite button. I find that men are sometimes clueless on the finer distinctions of the site-as for instance the difference between hitting the like button or the favorite button under a woman's pictures.

After you have a lot of likes on a picture you have no idea who is hitting that like button. The site shows you likes from oldest to newest and if you have very many likes...you just don't see the newest ones-at least I have not figured out how to. In contrast-if you hit the favorite button under a photo it puts that photo in a folder that people can view when they click on your profile. A photo that you have clicked favorite under is saved into a folder where you can always find it and click on that person's profile from there.

Sending me a message that you would like to meet me sends me to your profile to check you out. If you have a favorite folder on your profile page and one of my pictures is not there-I don't want to meet you and will likely tell you to ask one of those favorites of yours to meet you You may have hit the like button under one or many of my pictures-but I have no way of knowing that....if you favorite a photo I can always tell!
Men and Their Member
Posted:Mar 16, 2018 6:52 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2018 6:47 am

I went to check my messages last night on the site and I did it on my phone. I have the instant messenger disabled on my laptop but I didn't on my phone. I'm not even sure if I can disable it on my phone so I will have to check that under settings. Anyway I had a man instant message me not one...but THREE dick pics. Anyone giving a shit as to what I'm about can read the first line of my profile where I warn in all caps "DO NOT SEND ME A DICK PIC". If you want to chat with me it will not be dick and pussy first-and if you can''t look at the first line of my profile before messaging me then you are not worth a response. I KNOW this is a SEX site-I am aware of that.....but you men need to know that we women are NOT as enamored with your dick as you are....so do us the courtesy of at least a cursory look at our profile and what we have taken the time to write for you about our likes and dislikes....lest you prove yourself an idiot and a prick who will likely be blocked
Not a Drop of Sweet in this Bitch Today
Posted:Feb 27, 2018 8:25 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2018 10:59 am

GRRRRRRRR-that's all I can manage this morning.

I had a tooth extracted last Thursday and a bone graft and stitches in preparation for an implant as I broke that tooth irreparably. I am still so sore today that all I can manage to get out is FUCK!

You'd think I would remember the pain involved in such procedures as I worked for a dentist friend for many years-but alas-the memory failed. Not that it would have made much difference-I didn't have many options for a lower bicuspid in my smile pattern. Adding insult to injury-I have no dental insurance-so this will be thousands of dollars out of pocket.

Maybe I should have had them all pulled and dentures put in-that wouldn't have cost much more than this
Thanks Sweet Guys
Posted:Feb 15, 2018 6:22 am
Last Updated:May 31, 2018 10:25 am

I'm not the only woman on this site that loves all of the sweet guys that message Valentine and other holiday greetings to me.

I read and enjoy and appreciate every message that I get from you men. Those are some of the things that keep me here and have made my time on the site mostly happy and worthwhile.

I try and answer every email that I get on this site...every one of them....... and you(the men that send them) are important to me!

Thanks so much....I ADORE you {=}
Men: How Not To Be Stupid
Posted:Feb 12, 2018 9:29 am
Last Updated:May 31, 2018 7:47 am

Wondering why a guy who put this on another woman's profile picture "the best tits and nipples on the site" would message me wanting to meet. I have tit pictures on this site and he didn't even leave me a comment.

I have said this many times and I'm saying it AGAIN.....if you message me and want to meet there are some things you need to know.

#1 I will check your profile out in great detail...I will follow links there to your activity on the site.

#2 I will know who you have hotlisted and put points on and if you cant even at least hotlist me as you have other women....Get Lost.

#3 I will check that favorite folder of pics of yours and if you favorited other women's pics but not one of my 30 something pics....Get Lost

#4 If I find that you have put a comment under a woman's pic that she has the "best" on the site of whatever the pic may show....and I have the same kind of pic with a less flattering comment or no comment at all from you... I will be INSULTED and you have made a BAD first impression.....Get Lost

I wish I could teach the men on this site how NOT to be stupid if they want to actually meet a woman. They can't hotlist and comment certain things to some women and then want to meet someone they did or said NOTHING for in any way....No comments...no favorite pics of mine in your folder...no hotlisting as you have for other women or worse yet..insulting us by gushing over other women but not us!

Some women here don't feel this way at all...and that is your right and privilege. Many women....me included.... feel that this is so important that we won't meet men who we feel have insulted us in this way.

I understand that this can't be read if a man is on the site on a phone only. Too bad for him if he is and violates my requirements for meeting.
Here We Go Again
Posted:Feb 11, 2018 8:21 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2018 6:49 pm

My profile contains the line in all Caps "DO NOT MESSAGE ME A DICK PIC". I had a status line a couple of weeks ago that broke bad on men that send me a dick pic in my pvt message box or on the im feature. I had one man call me a cunt -a whore-a slut and other such things because i stated I do not want men to SEND me dick pics in my pvt email.

Today I got an email from a man who said how much he is laughing at me because I say I don't like dick pics when I have a favorite folder full of them.

I have a favorite folder with fit male bodies...some of those bodies are naked and so they have a dick attached to them. I DO NOT HAVE ONE DICK PICTURE in my favorite folder-I have naked-fit male bodies in it.

To the dumb son of a bitch who sent me that condescending email this morning may I make a suggestion....go back to school and take a reading comprehension 101 refresher course....you need it!

I have SO had it with stupid men that when they read "dick" and "no" in the same sentence they become unthinking idiots.
Stress Relief?
Posted:Feb 10, 2018 10:11 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2018 8:45 am

I get a few messages in here form men who attach their profile-as though they think a woman can't click on that profile if she is interested in reading it. Many times those profiles state how hard and how many long hours those men work at their jobs. Many times they state they need a stress reliever...and sex is a good stress reliever...we all know that...me included.

No one on this site works harder than I do at what I have to do. I am a caregiver with a spouse who does NOTHING(although he could if he would). I do it all...cook...clean...pay the bills...take him to his many doc appointments lay out and take care of all his pills for the day....do all the yard work..take care of his 30 prescriptions....you get the picture.

Why do you men think you need to tell us women how hard you work???? I NEVER put that on my profile although I do.... and so I could.

Yes......sex is a great stress reliever but I am not some pill you're going to take for stress relief-keep that in mind before you message your profile to me telling me how hard YOU work and how STRESSFUL life is for YOU.

The bitch is outta the cage this week-can ya tell?
My Rules Of Engagement
Posted:Feb 9, 2018 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2018 4:43 am

Every once in awhile(at least yearly)I think it's important to write out exactly what a man has to do on this site to have a lunch/dinner or drink date with me. I have certain things that I will do if a man messages me and wants to meet. I first go to his profile and read all that he has written about himself. I will then look at his pictures to get an idea what he may look like. If he has pictures of him fucking some beauty that's younger than me(or not) I will chuckle and that will be the end of him for me. I am not looking for some guy that puts up pictures like that. Don't you guys DARE tell me this is a fuck site......I know that you think that....but I will not date a man that has pics like that on his profile.

My other disqualifiers are these....you have a favorite folder and I am not in it. If you didn't like one of my pictures enough to click on the favorite button...but you did for many other women......I do not want a date with you-please ask one of them out. If you didn't put a comment under any of my pictures but you have for other women....I am NOT going out with you. If you have a hotlist of women and you didn't hotlist me...why would I go out with you? I don't doubt that I think more highly of me than you do IF you ask to meet me but have not in any way made me feel special like you have those other women.

I get more mail in here than I can keep up with. I get lots of attention and I can afford to be a bit choosy about who I meet. I'm not the only woman who checks out every profile of any man asking to meet. Some of you men border on idiocy and need to wise up. If you want to meet a woman and you have a favorite folder...put her picture in there. If you want to meet a woman and you have hotlisted other women...hotlist her.

This post is written because I just got a message from a man who wants to meet but has violated my rules of engagement.

Men be warned: Women that you ask to meet are going straight to your profile and we are going to check out EVERYTHING you have done...said...or put on this site.
Tsk Tsk Tsk LoverOfLips69
Posted:Feb 8, 2018 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2018 6:53 am

Cads are a dime a dozen in this place as all of us that have been on the site for any length of time know. What pisses me off about my experience with their kind is that they always contact me first....usually they are coming my way and want to meet for a drink or lunch/dinner.

Today I have put LoverOfLips69 into the cad category here. He contacted me asking me to meet him as he was passing through my area. I said sure-I would meet him in my town for dinner. I gave him my cell ph number and yesterday at 2pm he ed me that he would like to cancel due to icy rain in West Chester PA. It was only raining here and West Chester is not far but I chose to believe him that it was icy there...maybe it was true. He asked if we could cancel and meet today for dinner. I said sure....and set aside time and arranged my shedule to be able to meet him today.

I didn't hear anything from him all day today-so at 3 minutes before 6pm I texted him asking "What's going on with you". Within a few seconds he texted me back and said "Down and out today been vomiting afraid it's the flu". He had his cell phone pretty much right in his hands to text me back so quickly-I hope he didn't vomit on it

LoverOfLips69 had all day to let me know that he was not making it my way and I should not to get ready to meet him as he is sick. He did NOT do that and I don't believe for minute that he is so sick he couldn't....I think he is another on site asshole that is all about WASTING people's valuable time.

I just found all of my messages from him here on the site...for some reason I didn't delete them and I'm laughing at myself because he did the same damned thing exactly one week ago today. He asked me to meet him for dinner and when I said yes...he said he had to cancel. LoverOfLips69 is a fraud...so gals beware.

I am very jaded about this place...I know that I am...and for very good reason...the assholes...bullshitters...time wasters and fuck wads far outnumber the honorable men and women of Senior Sizzle

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