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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2018 6:56 pm
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And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

The Fun Stuff - about me

On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
Photo time Male nude partial nude d15c
A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

Virtual Symposium
1st time for the 12th VS International Intrigue -- 13th Virtual world and blogs -- 14th vs First dates
15th VS Black and White __ 16th vs Casual relationships __17th The First Time __18th VS Its a Secret&vs18its a secret__19thVS Its science time__20thVS My life as a __VS23 Dreams

Ponderings
Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding


Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
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Re-write those ads
Posted:Sep 21, 2018 1:57 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2018 9:33 pm
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Re-write those ads I see on a daily basis. So I have changed the gender/age to reflect me but the content of the ad is what I have read.

.......

Looking for a good fuck
I need a sexy man and some crazy good sex.
Im 44, 5'4, clean, attractive, live in the badlands.
The kinkier, the better. I love age play, DD, and more...

____

next!
____

Poly/swinger 44 female seeking LTR
Wanting to find at least 1-2 men for a long term relationship. This would be swinging-poly. Where we are all in one relationship together but we can swing with other couples or friends such as for hosting a party or needing extras for a particular fantasy(gang bang, DP, etc...). No dating anyone else though unless we intended to bring them into the entire relationship. I am not opposed to a sub female eventually joining us but that would be after we have our relationship on a solid foundation.

I am a Top, hedonist, sado-maso, and can be sexually submissve , so I am open to men who are about 50-100% submissive. If you're a bit more/less then you can still send me a message and we can discuss the details of how to meet your needs.

I only have a few kinks that are a must/dealbreakers. Tell me what you are into and we can figure out how to accommodate. Lifestyle wise I am fairly regimented so daily routine, healthy eating, mind strengthening exercises are things I focus on and you must want to embrace.

....
Next!! Maybe for that one but...
.....

Looking For Casual FWB
Single 44 year old female looking for male Play partner, FWB, Etc.
If interested shoot me a message.

____.___.______
Next! ...ya not really...
...

Looking to get laid in the next couple hours

Nothing much to really say, I’m hella horny and looking to bust a nut, hit me up
Men and couples only, no chicks though.
But yanno anyone really, just kinda need a warm body with a hard pole (vs a cold one) =D
(Added that last line in)
....

. ..ok sorta not working with that one. Lol



(Simple enough)

Just kidding, I know my ads suck just as bad. Lol
But I need to write what men may understand...so I will be looking at more ads.


Still need to figure out how to write profiles and ads to portray what I am looking for and the type of person... as I am not into playing the numbers games nor do I have the man base to do that. Lol

Sexy bloggers it's friday!
Kink party tomorrow night, more women than men as usual but at least I can chat with some of my friends from the okanagan.

What are your big plans for the weekend?
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Hotel stay
Posted:Sep 19, 2018 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2018 10:21 am
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..in the other badlands.


Nice to have some me-time!


Enjoy the hump...at least I think its Wednesday..
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Pre-sinday distraction
Posted:Sep 15, 2018 5:40 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2018 5:59 am
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So I got a little distracted this afternoon.



But it was a break in between chores.
You smoke .... πŸ‘‰πŸ˜¬
You drink coffee ..... πŸ™„πŸ‘ˆ
πŸ€” I guess I coulda just done some sumthin sumthin...
Like yoga or a hike,

But the orgasms where hot, creamy, and relaxing!

Its been awhile for the creamy wet gushes,
Definitely craving more now.
And a hard cock buried deep.

Yep, that's how I would like to spend my night. Lol
But then wouldn't we all want some hot kinky sex right about now.
But ya you are sitting here reading this, so you are also at home rubbin one out.
Lol... just sayin.

Sexy bloggers,
How you doin?
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Finally Friday
Posted:Sep 14, 2018 8:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2018 7:52 am
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So I bought a cheaper laptop, and didn't realize how slow it would be. Lol
I was excited to be able to do things from a laptop that you cant do from a cell.... but ya, may still have to buy a better laptop.
2gb of ram and it may as well be a dial up. Lol

I was hoping for something to cam on next week because I'm in a hotel room for 3 nights, plus post a few of my vaulted vid or a pics....
All well, its all good, its not like my stuff is going anywhere anyway.



I don't need a real fancy laptop, I basically just use it to read emails, look at my sites, ...

But when it comes to photos I'm still planning on a nice camera for that.
My fly rod n reel came in this week. Now I need a new toy order or something for my kink or book collection.
Hm There is a toy I'm waiting on, its currently part of a larger collection and not sold separately...but when it is then I will order it in. Lol.

Ladywood being a pest this mornin...
Horny and easily distracted. Lol
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Photos...
Posted:Sep 12, 2018 10:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2018 5:58 am
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Some days I still wonder why men request photos, but as an exhibitionist I have no real issue with sharing with established partners.
But when they have millions of photos to look at... it still baffles me. Lol



When you have 80lb teens to look at, yet they request a 44 yr old.

Anyway,
Still looking for the right accent skirt to go with my corset before I take any more photos.
But I did take my leather toys out of storage, funny how the smell n feel of them turn me right on! (Hence why they are in locked storage). And yes I know kink/bdsm turns off most guys, but it gets my juices flowing. Lol

I am learning self bondage because male bodied rope bottoms are few n far between, but I have also asked my very vanilla ex-casual if I can practice on him and he will/maybe try it.

Kink party coming up.
At least I can live vicariously through the friends I know. Lol
But I can at least get some socialization in.

Sexy bloggers,
Do you go to any social events in around your interests and hobbies like stamp collecting or trains or whatever you do?


My new fly rod will be in by friday, first lessons by the end of the month. So at least I have a hobby that lots of older guys are into, as I have had to drop rock climbing and kayaking off my list, and only solo hike, and gardening, all I do on my own.
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Wednesday and a hump day
Posted:Sep 5, 2018 7:37 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2018 3:09 pm
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Sharing the positive vibes.

Enjoy the mid week hurdle as it is all down hill from here.
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Sort of Monday πŸ˜ƒ
Posted:Sep 4, 2018 7:53 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2018 2:15 pm
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'Size' most everyone's favorite topic, not only including penis size but of course the size of the woman especially her breasts and waist.



Men are the biggest size queens, I know from experience that many want to see the biggest toys I have on cam and not the average sized toy. Some become obsessed with being inferior to every other dic out there even if he is average or slightly higher or lower.
What I found interesting was when 'Embarrassing bodies' host polled a group men on what they thought the average male penis was and the majority said 10 inches! Lets just say that they may watch too much porn.

The size factor also bleeds over to the size of a woman and the male obsession with perfection. But that's a whole other blog.
Insecurities a part, and many times it's the skewed perspective of real life vs what online shows us.

Anyway,
With the amount of bad dates I have had...thank goodness that I have a selection in toys. Lol

Tuesday, the start of the school year and a shift in daily schedule.
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Sinday pancakes...
Posted:Sep 2, 2018 11:37 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2018 9:52 am
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So sexy bloggers whilst I was cooking breakfast I needed sone background sound... we have satellite tv (dont judge, we are in the boonies) and I put on 90 day fiance.
I typically just watch netfix bec I'm not a fan of commercials.

Ok lets just say my boring dating life looks awesome now!
Lol... seriously are those stories real?!
Lots of men wanting barely legal babes because they are soo yoouungg n hootttt. I get it, I really do.
Kinda disappointing that they show older women doing the cougar thing but portraying it as desperate, its like the show is doing the shaming thing. Lol

But dating is tough as an older woman...
I mean I have travelled to alberta to meet someone but I won't even consider going out of country to meet. Seriously if the men can't get a date in thier own country then something must be wrong... lol...bad enough having to search western Canada (I should know as I have driven all over, but we have far more women than men available).

Anyway,
I was playing around with my cell again and found the filters with the silly addons....lets just say I am easily amused some days..ok most days but probably because I like to chuckle.

But you just get to see the bewbs

Yes those are real they are not photoshopped. The original pic went to my one friend, and it had the silly filter on it....but who doesnt want to see bewbs in the morning.

Anyhoo,
Reality tv, no wonder I like watching movies.
But as for dating, I sort of search western Canada but I have been burned soo many times that I'm in no hurry to travel anymore. Lol. But when I search in my local area it just makes me close the app and go read a book, same 10 profiles every time.

Sexy bloggers,
How about you, are you still willing to meet new people when there's barely any interest?
Are you far more selective now or still open to meeting most everyone?
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Late Thursday bedtime story..
Posted:Aug 30, 2018 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2018 8:26 am
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Short story...


Like I said, just listen when I say something. Lol!



I will dig around the archive pics and see what I can find.

Enjoy the evening sexy bloggers.
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Mornin picks 😏
Posted:Aug 27, 2018 8:47 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2018 8:46 am
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Actually that is pics!

Sexy bloggers some days I chuckle at the photos or vids that are requested, don't get excited I only supply custom shots to established partners.

Kinda like the "flash me" request, I don't personally see my breasts as sexual but apparently some guys do. Lol
I do not get turned on by just seeing a dic pic, but seeing a dic pic within the context of our texting can be hot. Which I found is one of the bigger differences between men and women with reference to visual cues to fap to. Seems some can just look at a pic and jerk one off, some need more external stimulation, some probably have a whole scene going on in thier head. and then others only orgasm when someone is present.

I have tried to rub one out by just looking at a photo (one that turned me on in a sexting session) and it was a non starter. but hey I tried a few times and just couldn't get the motor started via a simple visual cue.

But what about those photo requests
You have unlimited photos available online with a quick key stroke or click of a mouse, why would you ask an internet stranger for pics?

I suppose I just don't understand the photo collectors out there, I get why my partners would ask for pics or vids...but even then there are far hotter barely legals all over the interwebz.

I still look at some of the hot male profiles on here and the kink site, but then I enjoy visual stimulation as it adds to my spank bank...but just barely unless its a particularl vid that I like.

Sexy bloggers,
It's a monday here and the sun is finally out! Meaning for the moment the wildfire smoke is not looming over us.

I'm off to whitewater rafting today, so enjoy your day!
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Sinday coffee πŸ™‚
Posted:Aug 26, 2018 11:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2018 9:06 am
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So another sinday in the badlands and we have cooled down considerably including a steady rain. With such a cool morning I decided on a strong dark coffee made in a french press, little bit of raw sugar and some cream.

While sitting here waiting for the breakfast to cook I started going through my online archive of photos.... and my vids from the cam days.
Let's just say that it was some hot memories. Lol

But....



System check βœ”
Still lubricated, running smoothly, the engine still purrs but on cold mornings it's a hard start.

Sexy bloggers I have spent a whole lot of time pondering over my fantasies and desires deciding on how to proceed...
My thoughts have been high around kink and bdsm, just craving that sensual pleasures and mind orgasm.

Anyhoo....
Enjoy your sinday
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